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    Meanest Woman Ever: Annie

    Annie Houston, circa 1920

    My great grandmother was the meanest woman ever.

    That’s quite a claim, right?

    The story goes like this. Years ago, as my Mom asked people around town what they remembered about her Grandma Houston, Annie Maria Davis Houston, their responses were something like this:

    “She had a beautiful singing voice. She was the meanest woman ever.”

    “Sister Houston made beautiful rag rugs. Not a nice woman.”

    “Annie made amazing cheese. Meanest woman ever.”

    In her brief history of her mother, Gwen Houston Baxter, described Annie as:

    “She was a large woman with a very proud carriage of a dominant and independent nature.  She was an outspoken woman, nothing deceptive about her.  She was a strong disciplinarian.” 

    Her daughter-in-law, Della Prince Houston, recalled that Annie “didn’t have many close friends because people were afraid of her, [and] didn’t feel at ease in her presence.  She was a sharp-spoken woman at times and was the disciplinarian of the family. Her sons all left home as soon as they were old enough to be on their own.”

    When my Grandpa Steiner was 3 or 4 years old, he and his brother were messing around in the snow, looking for long nails that they could use as “diggers” to propel their sleighs. They fought over a nail.  Each time Roll would lay the nail down to chop the head off with a hatchet, Steiner would grab for it. Well, someone lost a finger…and that someone was Steiner!  Roll promised Steiner the diggers if he wouldn’t tell Mom.  When they couldn’t stop the bleeding they went in to face Annie’s wrath.

    In later life, Annie sat watching Cecil Prince Reid (who claimed she weighed less than 100 lb at the time) shake out Annie’s rugs.  Annie chimed in to let Cecil know that, “She always thought of little people like runt pigs, no good for anything, but it looks like you do alright.”

    How about that for outspoken bluntness? 

    Annie as a young woman

    Annie was “a woman of distinction”.  “Her wavy white hair and dignified bearing were outstanding.”  She was renowned for her fine clothing and both histories of her life report that her wedding dress was made of 18 yards of fabric.

    Annie was proud of her home and furnishings.  She had an elegant brick home, curtains from France, and beautiful furniture. 

    Annie’s beginnings were far from grand, however.

    Annie was born on September 8, 1860, in Salt Lake City, Utah.  Her parents Joseph Cadwallader Davis (or Davies) and Maria Williams were converts to the Mormon faith and had both immigrated from Wales. 

    Joseph Cadwallader and Maria Williams Davis Family
    (Annie is top left)

    Annie was the eldest of 22 children born to her father and his two wives. Seven of those children would not survive to adulthood. 

    The family moved from Salt Lake City to Panaca (a tiny mining town that is now in Nevada) and later when Annie was a teenager to Panguitch, Utah. When the Davis family first moved to Panaca they lived in a potato cellar and Annie’s father attempted to eke out a living by frieghting and making charcoal for the mines and from farming. 

    One of Annie’s chores was to peddle vegetables in town. Annie, too ashamed to peddle, would hide while her sister, Elizabeth would sell.  After helping with housework, Annie would go into the fields with her father to strip sugar cane, pick potatoes, and help with hay and grain harvests.

    As a teenager, Annie worked in homes and even taught in a private school for a short time. She was eager to get an education.  With the encouragement of her father, Annie married an older man as his plural wife.  Reportedly, Mr. Crosby promised to send Annie to school.  In later life, Annie told her daughter-in-law, Mr. Crosby accosted Annie as she was returning the cows from the field for milking, and Annie beat him off with a stick.  Annie was reportedly treated like a hired hand and never obtained the education she was promised. Annie obtained an annulment after just 6 months of marriage.  All before her 18th birthday.

    To find the rest of Annie’s story, read here.

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    Meanest Woman Ever: Never Idle

    My great grandmother was the meanest woman ever. To read the first installment of her story read here.

    By the age of 18, Annie was already the survivor of a short-lived disasterous marriage. 

    During the two summers of 1879 and 1880, Annie worked for the Houston families at their ranches.  This is where Annie first met Joesph Houston, a grey-eyed handsome rancher.  Joseph was a widower who was nine years older than Annie.

    In 1874, Joseph had married his best friend’s sister, Elizabeth Clark.  Joseph’s best friend, Riley Garner Clark II, married Joseph’s younger sister Margaret in a double wedding. Elizabeth died in childbirth in 1879, leaving Joseph with two small children.

    What drew Joseph and Annie together? For Annie, Joseph likely offered respectability and financial stability. The Houstons were wealthy and prominent citizens (Joseph would go on to serve two terms as mayor).

    Joseph and Annie married in January 1881.

    In the following twenty-four years, Annie gave birth to twelve children:

    • Josephine (nee Connor Hilton)(1881 – 1953)
    • Maria Dempster (nee Fotheringham)(1883-1953)
    • Joseph (1885 – 1885)
    • Claudius (“Claud”) (1886-1933) b
    • Margaret Fiametta (nee Ipson) (1890 – 1929)
    • Arthur Quince (“Quince”) (1892 – 1970)
    • George Rollo (“Rolley” or “Roll”) (1894 – 1975)
    • John Steiner (“Steiner”) (1896-1964)
    • Mary Gwen (“Gwen”)(nee Baxter)(1898 – 1965)
    • Thomas Ray (“Tom”)(1899 – 1970)
    • Ellis Dudley (“Ellis”)(1902 – 1939)
    • David Cameron (1905 – 1905)

    “[Annie’s] one big ambition was that her family would be a credit to her and her work.”

    Della opined, “I think she [Annie] was a frustrated, broken-hearted woman.  Her husband didn’t show much love or respect. Always spoke of her as ‘the other woman’. His Johnny ways annoyed her.  She was very proud and wanted her sons to be in prominent positions in the town.” 

    In his own words when discussing his love of reading, Joseph said,

    “My wife (Annie) was always put out about my reading. [P]erhaps I didn’t talk enough to her.”

    One thing that is evident about Annie’s life is that she knew how to work and valued hard work in others.  Annie was described by her daughter as “very industrious; she disliked seeing others idle”.  In addition to her housework duties, Annie made rugs, quilts, crotched lace, knit stockings, and made most of her children’s clothing.

    Annie and her family spent the summers on the family ranch making cheese and butter.  One summer, Annie reportedly made seven barrels of butter weighing 350 lbs a barrel. This was before mechanical separators were widely available, so in addition to milking cows, Annie would distribute milk into pans, skim the cream, and churn the butter by hand.

    Annie was a devoutly religious woman. She was an active member in her LDS ward and loved genealogy and temple work.  For over 45 years she sang in the ward choir.

    Sadly, even in her religious devotion, Annie’s pride got in the way.  Joseph and Annie had two sons who went on LDS missions. Then as now, sons serving missions is a source of pride for Mormons. Quince came home after his mission president questioned why he had not been drafted (WWI); Roll completed his mission but joined a different religion soon after returning home. When Steiner asked for his parents’ support to go on a mission, they refused. 

    Of all of Annie’s children, only Steiner would remain an active member of the LDS faith.

    By 1930, only three of Annie’s sons (Quince, Tom, and Steiner) lived in Panguitch.  The other six children had moved away.

    My Mom tells that as children they would beg to go to see their Houston uncles.  Steiner would go, but they would stay for only a few minutes and then go home.  Even when traveling, Steiner would opt to stay with his wife’s sister rather than stay with his own sister, who lived a few blocks away.  While Della and Steiner would have Annie and Joseph to dinner nearly every Sunday, the family get-togethers were always initiated by Della and not Steiner. 

    The last years of Annie’s life were lonely ones. In 1929, Annie’s daughter Margaret Fiametta died at the age of 38 from pneumonia. In 1932, her son Claud died at age 46 from a heart attack. In 1935, her hsuband Joseph died at the age of 85.

    Most tragically, in 1939, Annie’s youngest son, Ellis died at the age of 35 as a result of injuries he sustained in a car accident and from exposure. Ellis was an alcoholic. 

    When Ellis came home drunk and Annie would tell him he had to go elsewhere, Ellis would threaten that he would leave forever and someday when Annie heard about a vagrant getting killed she would always wonder if it was her baby boy.

    The only known photo of Ellis. 

    On the late December day when Ellis was in the car accident that ultimately would take his life, he came home drunk and injured and pounded on the door yelling for Annie to let him in.  Annie didn’t let Ellis in. Ellis contracted pneumonia as a result of exposure, which led to his death a month later. 

    Annie’s neighbor and friend, Cecil Reid said that Annie would feed the neighbor’s chickens to coax them so that she could see them. When asked why, Annie said, “To watch something alive and moving”. 

    Annie rattled around her grand brick home filled to the gills with stuff she couldn’t bring herself to throw away. The kitchen cabinets were full of kindling, cupboards and containers were full of rags (including cut up pockets of men’s overalls), as well as “great balls of string” that she had saved.  After her death, Annie’s children “hauled truckloads of junk to the river.” 

    Annie died on July 23, 1941, two months after she suffered a stroke which left her bedridden. Her obituary is titled “Pioneer Woman Buried Saturday Afternoon: Was Active in Church Organization in Life – Member of Choir”. All of Annie’s living sons and daughters were in attendance.    

    The story continues here. 

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